The Three Types of People

A teacher shows three toys to a student and asks the student to find out the differences. All the three toys are seemed to be identical in their shape, size and material. After keen observation, the student observes holes in the toys. 1st toy it has holes in the ears. 2nd toy has holes in ear and mouth. 3rd toy has only one hole in one ear.

Than with the help of needle the student puts the needle in the ear hole of 1st toy. The needle comes out from the other ear. In the 2nd toy, when the needle was put in ear the needle came out of mouth. And in the 3rd toy, when the needle was put in, the needle did not come out.

First toy represent those people around you who gives an impression that they are listening to you, all your things and care for you. But they just pretend to do so. After listening, as the needle comes out from the next ear, the things you said to them by counting on them are gone. So be careful while you are speaking to this type of people around you, who does not care for you.

Second toy represent those people who listens to you all your things and gives an impression that they care for you. But as in the toy, the needle comes out from mouth. These people will use your things and the words you tell them against you by telling it to others and bringing out the confidential issues for their own purpose.

Third toy, the needle does not come out from it. These kinds of people will keep the trust you have in them. They are the ones who you can count on.

Moral: Always stay in a company of a people who are loyal and trustworthy. People, who listen to what you tell them, are not always the ones you can count on when you need them the most.

WINNER Vs LOSER

The winner is always part of the answer;

The loser is always part of the problem.

The winner always has a program;

The loser always has an excuse.

The winner says,  “Let me do it for you“.

The loser says, “That is not my job”.

The winner sees an answer to every problem;

The loser sees a problem for every answer.

The winner says, “It may be difficult but it is possible;

The loser says, “It may be possible but it is too difficult”.

When  a winner makes a mistake, he says, ”I was wrong”.

When loser makes a mistake, he says, ”It wasn’t my fault”.

A winner makes commitments;

A loser makes promises.

Winners says,” I must do something”.

Losers says,  “ Something must be done”.

Winners are a part of the team;

Losers are apart from the team.

Winners see the gain;

Losers see the pain.

Winners see possibilities;

Losers see problems.

Winners believe in win- win ;

Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.

Winners see the potential;

Losers see the past.

Winners are like a thermostat;

Losers are like thermometers.

Winners choose what they say;

Losers says what they choose.

Winners use hard arguments but soft words;

Losers use soft arguments but hard words.

Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;

Winners follow the philosophy of empathy:

“Don’t do to others what you would not want them  to do you.“

Losers follow the philosophy  ,”Do it to others before they do it to you”.

Winners make it happen;

Losers let it happen.

Winners plan and prepare to win. The key word is preparation.re

 may be days when you get up in the morning and things aren’t the way you had hoped they w

IN / AT / ON / TO

IN

Use 'in' with spaces:

• in a room / in a building
• in a garden / in a park

Use 'in' with bodies of water:

• in the water
• in the sea
• in a river

Use 'in' with lines:

• in a row / in a line
• in a queue

AT

Use 'at' with places:

• at the bus-stop
• at the door
• at the cinema
• at the end of the street

ON

Use 'on' with surfaces:

• on the ceiling / on the wall / on the floor
• on the table

Use 'on' with small islands:

• I stayed on Maui.

Use 'on' with directions:

• on the left
• on the right
• straight on

TO

Use 'to' with movement from one place to another:

• I went to school.
• Did you go to work?
• Let's go to the shopping mall.

DO NOT Use 'to' with 'home'

Using - ANY / SOME

• Use "some" in positive sentences. We use some for both countable and uncountable nouns.
  Example: I have some friends.
• Use "any" in negative sentences or questions. We use any for both countable and uncountable nouns.
  Example: Do you have any cheese? - He doesn't have any friends in Chicago.
• Use "some" in questions when offering or requesting something that is there.
  Example: Would you like some bread? (offer) - Could I have some water? (request)
• Use "any" in negative sentences or questions. We use any for both countable and uncountable nouns.
  Example: Do you have any cheese? - He doesn't have any friends in Chicago.
• Use "some" words - somebody, someone, somewhere and something - in positive sentences.
  Example: He lives somewhere near here.
• Use "any" words - anybody, anyone, anywhere and anything - in negative sentences or questions.
  Example: Do you know anything about that boy? - She doesn't have anywhere to go.