Jan 16, 2013

Principles of Success

Principles of Success:

1.Develop definiteness of Purpose

2. Establish Mastermind Alliance
3. Assemble an attractive Personality
4. Use Applied Faith
5. Go the Extra mile
6. Create Personal Initiative
7. Build a Positive Mental Attitude
8. Control your Enthusiasm

9. Enforce Self Discipline
10. Think Accurately
11.ontrol your Attention
12. Inspire Team Work
13. Learn from Adversity and Defeats
14. Cultivate Creative Vision
15. Maintain Sound Health
16. Budget your Time and Money
17. Use Cosmic Habit Force Definite Purpose of Life:

Definiteness of Purpose:

One should have a high desirable, outstanding goal and keep it ever before you. You can have many non-conflicting goals, which help you to reach your major definite purpose of life. It is advisable to have immediate, intermediate, and distant objectives. Identify your desire with a definite plan for carrying out and achieving your objectives. Put your plan into action at once.

Act Now:

The meaning of life is action. You are known by your actions. You are remembered by your actions. The generations today know Gandhi as a man of peace, Einstein as a man of science, Henry Ford as a man who built a huge fortune. When we remember a man, it is the picture of his actions that come to our mind.
If the meaning of life is action, its natural corollary is you have to act. You have to keep doing the action that is your chosen profession or vocation. There is no escape from it. The very foundation of the Gita is action. Actions can be fruitful or go futile. The ‘Gita’ also talks of attitude. Your attitude towards your action determines the worth of your action. Action without lust, attachment, greed or ego is the best way to perform an action.
A genius is 99 per cent perspiration & one percent inspiration.
........ Albert Einstein

Some of us who believe solely in luck or inspiration are adamant in our belief. The fact is nothing comes without toil and hard work. Even Einstein, the greatest scientist of our times strongly felt the value of perspiration. Nothing substantial has ever been arrived at or achieved without perspiration.

Persistence And Determination

Nothing will take the place of persistence.
Talent will not: Nothing is more common than unsuccessful people with talent.
Genius will not: Unrewarded genius is a proverb only.
Education will not: The world is full of educated derelicts.
Persistence & determination alone are omnipotent.

……Calvin Cooli

Resistence is the power to say ‘No’ to a task, comes what may. Persistence is the ability to persevere under thick and thin alike.

You cannot persist in your efforts, if you do not have a single minded determination. People with single minded determination and persistence are too busy. They do not have time for anything else apart from what is their immediate goal or object.

Success usually comes to those who are too busy to be looking for it.

......Henry David Thoreau.

If you have a goal or target, a plan of action with single minded determination and persistence, the success is yours. If you have an unwavering faith in yourself and your ability to achieve your goal, it will be easy for you to develop the character of persistence.

Single minded determination calls for mental discipline. Such a discipline is not acquired overnight but comes through strenuous effort inculcated over a long period of time. Single minded determination is a positive catalyst for hard worker. You cannot work hard if you determination is wavering.

Single minded determination or will reflects your thought process. Understanding your thought process and applying it to achieve your goal is the key to success.

Belief & Faith

If you do not believe you will be successful, you will never be. If you doubt yourself and your abilities, the success steps you take will be hesitant and the measures will be half hearted. Belief and faith can do wonders, it can to miracles.

Do you know about faith-healers? Or have you heard about them? Some people are capable of healing themselves merely because they have an unwavering faith in the curative powers of belief system. There are even those people who can heal other.

If You Think

If you think you are beaten, you are.
If you think you dare not, you don’t!

If you like to win, but think you can’t. It’s almost a clinch you wan’t.
If you think you’ll lose, you are lost. For out in the world we find.

Success begins with a fellow’s will; It’s all in the state of mind.
If you think you are outclassed, you are, you’ve got to think high to rise.
You’ve got to be a sure of yourself before. You can ever win a prize.

Life’s battles don’t always go to the stronger and faster man,
But sooner or later the man who wins……

Is the man who thinks he can.

SUCCESS : A REPEATED FAILURE WITHOUT QUITTING

This man failed in business at the age of 21: was defeated in a legislative race at age 22: failed again in business at age 24: had his sweetheart die when he was age 26: had a nervous breakdown at age 27: lost a congressional race at age 34: lost a senatorial race at age 45: failed in an effort to become vice-president at age 47: lost a senatorial race at age 49: and was elected president of the United States at age 52. The man was Abraham Lincoln.

In 1913, Lee De Forest, inventor of the triode tube, was charged by the district attorney for using fraudulent means to mislead the public into buying stocks in his company by claiming that he could transmit the human voice across the Atlantic. He was publicly humiliated.

Colonel Sanders, at age 65, had assets of a beat-up car and a $ 100 check from social security. He realized he had to do something to improve his position. He remembered his fried chicken recipe and went out selling. How many doors did he have to knock on before he got his first order? It is estimated that he had knocked on more than a thousand doors before he got his first order.

As a young cartoonist, Walt Disney faced many rejections from Newspaper editors who said he had more talent. One day a minister at a church hired him to draw some cartoons. Disney was working out of a small rodent infested shed near the church. Seeing a small mouse inspired him to draw a new cartoon. That was the start of the Mickey Mouse.

One day a partially deaf four-year old child came home with a note in his pocket from his teacher, “your Tommy is too stupid to learn, get him out of the school.” His mother read the note and answered “My Tommy is not too stupid to learn, I will teach him myself.” and that Tommy grew up to be the great Thomas Edison. Thomas Edison had only three months of formal schooling.
FAILURES, BEFORE SUCCESS

Positive Attitude & Success:
Positive attitude gives hope. Positive attitude reassures you. Positive attitude is a mental trait of seeing light in darkness. If you are a person of positive temperament you always see the brighter side of life. Why is it that?

When most of the people say the glass is half empty, a few people emphasize that that the glass is half full.

When a task is assigned to two persons, one of them says it is difficult and cannot be done, the other person says it requires more effort and can be done.

When the weary army of Alexander the great refused to move beyond Indus, saying fighting any longer was an Impossible task, Alexander said Indus can be crossed and the kings beyond Indus can be defeated and he did.

When Napolean command his army to cross Alps, they said “it was impossible” Napolean replied, “the word impossible is written in the dictionary of fools.”

The answer is positive attitude.

There is an intimate link between success & positive attitude. No one who has ever been successful has in his journey ever said ‘quite’. No one who has ever been successful has ever lost hope in his journey to success. No one who has said ‘impossible’ to a task has ever gone on to make it possible. But the contrary is often true:

If you say, I can, you will
If you say, I cannot, you will never

It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare;
It is because we do not dare that they are difficult
…..Seneca
Positive attitude can do wonders. It can make possible what is seemingly impossible for the others. Positive attitude is the seed out of which positive traits, which are essential for success, sprout forth. It is the positive attitude again which waters and feeds the saplings of positive traits.

Your mind is a machine of thoughts and ideas. If you do not fill it up with positive, inspiring and motivating thoughts, it will turn into a jungle of negative thoughts. Your mind is beautiful garden, if you don’t plant and nurture sapling of flowering plants in it, it will turn into mess of wild creepers, bushes and thorny plants.

You mind is a huge factory charming out ideas & thoughts. You are the supervisor of this factory. You have two foremen at your beck and call. They are Mr. Yes and Mr. No. as soon as your factory produces a great idea; you invite both the foreman to discuss its execution. Both of them as their names go, suggest accordingly. It is up to you to follow their advice or not. If you begin to follow the advice of ‘Mr No’ more and more, you begin to develop a negative attitude. A time comes when ‘Mr.No.’ has taken a complete control over your thought process. By and by a time comes then even before you could let a great idea seep within you, ‘Mr No’ comes and thrashes it out of shape, so much so that ‘Mr No’ takes a complete control over you.

If success is what something really attracts you, and sure it does everyone, then you must make a deep association with ‘Mr. Yes’, your foreman.

Dream & Vision
Imagination is everything.
If we can imagine a future, we can create it,
if we can create that future, other will live in it.
That is the essence of success.
Dream is the stuff reality is made of. The message of our President A.P.J. Kalam to children is that they must dream if they want to be successful.

If you have no dream, you not looking forward to anything. Therefore you cannot be successful. Nationalists like Gandhi and Nehru had the dream of a future India. They had the visions of society, polity, economy and constitution that an independent India would have. It was this vision or dream they were working for.

Dream particles and the real ones are not different, when the dream is lively and vivid. The Hindu mythology calls the universe a great cosmic dream of the creator.

When you have a lively vision or dream, you are a creator on way to creation. Let this dream persist. Let your vision grow stronger and stronger each moment of the day. And then one day you will realize your dream has turned into a reality. You may not be surprised by it, but the others will be.

Do not confuse dreams with day-dreams. Day-dreaming is idling. Day dreams lull you into inaction. But dreams are different.

Dream energizes you to activity
Dream strengthens your belief system
Dream adds to your confidence
Dreams puts a goal before you
Therefore, one must not just dream, but make the dream colourful and vivid. If possible, a picture of your dream that you wish to get or attain should be hung in your living room. To make your dream lively:

Remind yourself of your dream constantly
See the picture of your dream everyday
See your dream as the first thing when you get up in the morning
See your dream as the last thing when you go to sleep in the night.
In other words make your dream a living part of your consciousness. Make it the part of your sub consciousness too.

A new level of thinking:
Stephen covey in his illustrious book Seven Habits of Highly Effective People speaks about the new level of thinking which is principle-centered, character-based, inside-out approach to personal and interpersonal and interpersonal effectiveness.

Inside-out means to start first with self; even more fundamentally, to start with the most inside part of self-with your paradigms, your character, and your motives.

It says if you want to have a happy marriage, be the kind of person who generates positive energy and side step negative energy rather than empowering it. If you want to have a more pleasant, cooperative teenager, be a more understanding, empathetic, consistent loving parent. If you want to be trusted, be trustworthy. If you want the secondary greatness recognized talent, focus first on primary greatness of character.

The inside-out approach says that private victories precede public victories, that making and keeping promises to ourselves precedes making and keeping promises to the others. It says it is futile to put personality ahead of character, to try to improve relationships with others before improving ourselves. It must always be the Positive Character ahead of Positive Personality.
Source: principles of success

Dec 17, 2012

Mother


Mom, you're a wonderful mother,

So gentle, yet so strong.

The many ways you show you care

Always make me feel I belong.

You're patient when I'm foolish;

You give guidance when I ask;

It seems you can do most anything;

You're the master of every task.


You're a dependable source of comfort;

You're my cushion when I fall.

You help in times of trouble;

You support me whenever I call.

I love you more than you know;

You have my total respect.

If I had my choice of mothers,


You'd be the one I'd select!

Dec 3, 2012

ENGLISH ARTICLES

"A, An, The" definite and indefinite articles in English
Read the following description

Here are the basic rules for when to use "A, An or The":

  • a = indefinite article (not a specific object, one of a number of the same objects) with consonants
    Eric has a dog.
    Gregory works in a factory.
  • an = indefinite article (not a specific object, one of a number of the same objects) with vowels (a,e,i,o,u)
    Can I have an apple?
    Donata is an English teacher.
  • the = definite article (a specific object that both the person speaking and the listener know)
    The car over there is fast.
    The teacher is very good, isn't he?
  • The first time you speak of something use "a or an", the next time you repeat that object use "the".
    I live in a house. The house is quite old and has two bedrooms.
    I ate in a Vietnamese restaurant. The restaurant was not very clean.
  • DO NOT use an article with countries, states, counties or provinces, lakes and mountains except when the country is a collection of states such as "The United States".
    My uncle lives in Cumbria near Lake Windermere.
    They live in Bristol.
  • Use an article with bodies of water, oceans and seas -
    I live on a small island in the Baltic Sea.
  • DO NOT use an article when you are speaking about things in general
    I like Indian tea.
    Simon likes reading books about linguistics.
  • DO NOT use an article when you are speaking about meals, places, and transport
    He has breakfast at home.
    I go to university.
    Magda comes to work by taxi.
Source:world english


Nov 28, 2012

Funny poem

Found this poem, thought it was so funny. 

Of loving beauty you float with grace
If only you could hide your face

Kind, intelligent, loving, hot
I just described what you are not !

I want to feel your sweet embrace
But don't take that paper bag off your face

I love your smile, face and eyes
Damn, I'm good at telling lies !

I see your face when i am dreaming
That's why I always wake up screaming !

My love, you take my breath away
What did you step in to smell that way ?

My feelings for you have no words to tell
Except for maybe ''GO TO HELL!!!''

What inspired this amorous rhyme ?
Two parts vodka, one part lime !

Nov 25, 2012

"Hope increases courage."


Note that the particular verb you choose helps orient your listener  toward your opinion of the statement. "Praveen says" is neutral; "Praveen informs us" is positive, "Praveen alleges" is somewhat negative. Other verbs to choose from include:
  • says
  • writes
  • observes
  • remarks
  • adds
  • declares
  • informs us
  • alleges
  • claims
  • states
  • comments
  • thinks
  • affirms
  • asserts
  • explains
  • argues

Sometimes you might want to use a colon introduction. For example:
Kumquat offers this explanation: "Deep thinkers talk little."




Nov 24, 2012

The word 'Day' in sentence


Word Day in the sentence gathered from various sources to reflect current and historical usage.


  • Over the last few days he had weakened rapidly.
  • I work two and a half days in a week.
  • Days in advance of your arrival date.
  • Days of receipt.
  • I asked her how she had spent the day, she answered pretty well, tho ' she was very weak.
  • The next day was a parade through the town.
  • Day trips.
  • Your wedding day will be one of the most important days in your life.
  • Day of departure.
  • The early days of the walk were a remote memory.
  • In most cases patients can return to work the following day.
  • However, all enquiries are dealt with same day where possible.
  • Order before 1 pm for same day delivery or before 4 pm for next day delivery or before 4 pm for next day home delivery.
  • Please note that any students arriving after 4.00 pm will have their assignments date- stamped for the next working day.
  • Day of the week, whilst some close at weekends.
  • Over the last few days he had weakened rapidly.
  • Penguins are the most numerous birds breeding on the island at the present day.
  • Outline a fun day of making for all the family.

Has not in the sentence

Has is used with He, She and It in the present, to give present perfect meaning. Let's read some examples.

She has not come yet.

She hasn't come yet.
He has not spoken.
He hasn't spoken.
Has she not made the decision.
Hasn't she made the decision.
She has not lived here.
She hasn't lived here.
He has not arrived.
She has not written.
He has not given.
It has not completed.
He has not finished.
She has not seen the movie.
She has money.
she has no money.
He has not been to India.
He thinks, he has not met you.
Has she not read the book yet?
She has not been ill.
She has not been in good mood since morning.
She has not been working.
Man has walked on the moon.
Man has not walked on the moon.
Our son has not learned how to read.
Scientist has not split the atom.
She has not talked to any specialists.
She has talked to specialists.
The rain has not stopped.
His car has not broken down.
Has she not been to England.
Has he not seen that movie.
He has not even noticed.
He has not worked hard.
She has not been searching.
Ti has not been eating.
She has not studied the maths properly.

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Nov 23, 2012

Idiom

Yellow journalism

Meaning: Journalism in which sensational stories are used to boost sales, or biased reporting is used to change the reader's views on an issue. Both of these are unethical.
For example:
  • Have you noticed how, during a war, normally trustworthy professionals start writing the worst sort of yellow journalism to justify their government's actions?
  • Karthi : "Is there any difference between yellow journalism and propaganda?" Pruthvi: "I think yellow journalism can be even more dangerous than propaganda if it's being presented as objective reporting by well-known journalists."
Variety: This idiom is typically used in American English but may be used in other varieties of English too.

Nov 22, 2012

All hope abandon ye who enter here'


From Dante's Divine Comedy. The 1814 translation into English by the Reverend H. F. Cary is the origin for this phrase in English, although he gave it as the less commonly used 'All hope abandon ye who enter here'.
Through me you pass into the city of woe:
Through me you pass into eternal pain:
Through me among the people lost for aye.

Justice the founder of my fabric mov'd:

To rear me was the task of power divine,
Supremest wisdom, and primeval love.

Before me things create were none, save things

Eternal, and eternal I endure.
All hope abandon ye who enter here.

Such characters in colour dim I mark'd

Over a portal's lofty arch inscrib'd:
Whereat I thus: Master, these words import.
Dante Alighieri wrote this allegorical epic poem between 1306 and 1321. Virgil is the guide who takes the reader through the author's examination of the afterlife, which travels through the Inferno (Hell), the Purgatorio (Purgatory), and the Paradiso (Heaven).

Nov 20, 2012

It's raining cats and dogs

“Cats and dogs” come from the Greek expression cata doxa, which means “contrary to experience or belief.” If it is raining cats and dogs, it is raining unusually or unbelievably hard.
to say it’s raining “cats and dogs” might be to say it’s raining waterfalls.


Nov 15, 2012

Word for the day

Achromatic adj. 

Meaning : Free of colour, weak in colourful. not colourful, Colourless,

Relating to, employing, or denoting lenses that transmit light without separating it into constituent colours.


In sentence:

1.Dogs typically see the world achromatically.
2.Grey is a neutral achromatic colour.

Phrasal verbs with meaning and example

check someone/something outlook at carefully, investigateThe security guard checks out all new employees.
check out someone/somethinglook at (informal)Check out the crazy picture on that guy's T-shirt!
cheer upbecome happierShe cheered up when she heard the good news.

Nov 14, 2012

Phrasal verbs with meaning and example

not care for someone/somethingnot like (formal)I don't care for his behaviour.
catch upget to the same point as someone elseYou'll have to run faster than that if you want to catch up with Bolt.
check inarrive and register at a hotel or airportWe will get the Apartment keys when we check in.
check outleave a hotelYou have to check out of the hotel before 11:00 AM.

Word for the day

Unbeknownst

Meaning occurring or existing without the knowledge of

Usage:
1. Our cousin had been ill for years,unbeknownst to the family
2. Unbeknownst to me, she made all the arrangement.

Nov 13, 2012

Word for the day

Inherently


Meaning: In an essential manner.


The adverb inherently means in a natural or innate manner. Some people enjoy your inherently cheerful nature, but it drives other people crazy because they find you annoyingly perky.


Examples:

1.Inherent flaws in the present system of council tax.

2.Inherent in concepts of special education.


3.I think the most important ideas in that song were already 


   inherent in it before we recorded it.

Phrasal verbs - usage

call something offcancelPruthvi called the wedding off because he wasn't in love with his fiancé.
call on someoneask for an answer or opinionThe professor called on me for question 1.
call on someonevisit someoneWe called on you last night but you weren't home.
call someone upphoneGive me your phone number and I will call you up when we are in town.
calm downrelax after being angryYou are still mad. You need to calm down before you drive the car.

Nov 10, 2012

Word for the day

Ethnocentric:
Meaning: Cantered on  a specific ethnic group, usually one's own.
             1. Belief in the superiority of one's own ethnic group.
       2. Overriding concern with race.

Phrasal verbs with meaning and example

call aroundphone many different places/peopleWe called around but we weren't able to find the book we needed.
call someone backreturn a phone callcalled the agency back but the offices were closed for the weekend.
call something offcancelGagan called the wedding off because he wasn't in love with his fiancé.

Nov 9, 2012

Idiom for the day

Be on the tip of tongue:
Meaning:  if something we want to say is on the tip of our  tongue, we think we know it and that we will be able to remember it very soon.

1.Hang on, it's on the tip of my tongue.

2.Wait, its on the tip of my tongue. 

Word for the day

Dwell:
Meaning: Thing moodily or anxiously about something.
              : To live.
Usage : 1.Keep dwelling on what went wrong.
             2.To dwell in poverty ( to live in poverty)

Phrasal verbs with meaning and examples

back something upreverseYou'll have to back up your car so that I can get out.
back someone upsupportMy wife backed me up over my decision to quit my job.
blow upexplodeThe racing car blew up after it crashed into the fence.
blow something upadd airWe have to blow 50 balloons up for the party.
break downstop functioning (vehicle, machine)Our car broke down at the side of the highway in the snowstorm.
break downget upsetThe woman broke down when the police told her that her son had died.
break somethingdowndivide into smaller partsOur teacher broke the final project down into three separate parts.
break inforce entry to a buildingSomebody broke in last night and stole our stereo.
break into somethingenter forciblyThe firemen had to break into the room to rescue the children.
break something inwear something a few times so that it doesn't look/feel newI need to break these shoes in before we run next week.
break ininterruptThe TV station broke in to report the news of the president's death.
break upend a relationshipMy boyfriend and I broke up before I moved to America.
break upstart laughing (informal)The kids just broke up as soon as the clown started talking.
break outescapeThe prisoners broke out of jail when the guards weren't looking.
break out in somethingdevelop a skin conditionbroke out in a rash after our camping trip.
bring someone downmake unhappyThis sad music is bringing me down.
bring someone upraise a childMy grandparents brought me up after my parents died.
bring something upstart talking about a subjectMy mother walks out of the room when my father brings up sports.
bring something upvomitHe drank so much that he brought his dinner up in the toilet.

Nov 7, 2012

Phrasal Verbs with meaning and example

VerbMeaningExample
ask someone outinvite on a dateGagan asked Mallika out to dinner and a movie.
ask aroundask many people the same questionasked around but nobody has seen my spects.
add up to somethingequalYour purchases add up to $150.32.
Word for the day:
Concern:
Something that interests because it is impotent or affects you.
There is a growing concern with pollution.

I am concerned about my test score.

    It is most commonly used as a verb in the passive

    expression: "be concerned (about)."

      As far as I'm concerned, that's none of your business.


Nov 6, 2012


Would is the past tense of will in indirect speech.
  • He said, ‘I will come.’
  • He said that he would come.
Should is the past tense of shall in indirect speech.
With second and third person pronouns, would is used to express a wish or preference.
  • He would rather stay at home than work.
  • She would rather have tea than coffee.
Should can be used with first person pronouns to express a wish or preference.
  • should like to go to the pictures tonight.
Would can be used with 2nd person pronouns to make a polite request.
  • Would you mind opening the window?
  • Would you mind moving a bit?
Should can be used with nouns and pronouns of all persons to express an obligation or an assumption.
  • You should be more punctual.
  • They should be more considerate.
  • It should be possible to do it.
  • They should reach home any time now.
  • Should have + past participle can be used to talk about past events which did not happen.
    • should have phoned John this morning, but I forgot.
    Would can be used to talk about past habits and typical characteristics.
    • Sometimes he would bring us little presents without saying why.
    Stressed would can be used to criticize people’s behaviour.
    • She was a good girl, but she WOULD talk about herself all the time.

Nov 2, 2012

Phrase for the day:
A bunch of fives: 
meaning: A fist. the fives are the five fingers.

Word for the day:

Intend:
Meaning: have in mind as a purpose
Usage: 
1. Mary intended to leave the job.
2. Mark intended to work for our company.
                                          











 

Chapter 1
Greeting

In the morning:
1. Good morning  grand pa
2. Good morning dad  
3. Good morning mom


After noon: (12 pm- 4 pm)
1. Good afternoon uncle
2. Good afternoon children
3. Good afternoon sheetal 

After 4 pm: 
1. Good evening mom
2. Good evening sir
3. Good evening madam

Late evening when you depart:
1. Good night, sweet dreams 

You can wish "good day, have a nice day", have a great day" any time during  the day

Informal: 
Hi.
Hello.
Bye.

Formal: See you.
Informal: Ciao.

Take care.
Have a great day.

Nov 1, 2012

Phrase for the day:

A Bird In The Hand Is Worth Two In The Bush: 
Having something that is certain is much better than taking a risk for more, because chances are you might lose everything.



Meaning:

It's better to have a lesser but certain advantage than the possibility of a greater one that may come to nothing.

Word for the day:
Ancient:
Meaning: very old
Verona's ancient citizens
Cast by their grave beseeming ornaments,
To wield old partisans
             
                   Word for the day

Petulant:


Pronunciation: pe-chə-lənt


Meaning: easily irritated or annoyed


Synonyms:peevish,fretful,pettish,touchy.


Example:


1. the music is petulant as it rolls and roars.


2. He could be petulant.

Oct 31, 2012


Word for the day


Antagonism:

Pronunciation:\an-ˈta-gə-ˌni-zəm\: noun

Usage:
1. an actively expressed feeling of dislike and hostility
2. a state of deep-seated ill-will
3. the relation between opposing principles or forces or factors

Oct 30, 2012


Fiancé vs Fiancée

Word origin : The origin of the word fiancé is mid 19th 

century, from French, past participle of fiancer 'betroth,' from 

Old French fiance 'a promise,' based on Latin fidere 'to trust.'


Fiancé -(fi -an- c (e)

Fi·an·cée -[fee-ahn-sey, fee-ahn-sey]

They are both French loanwords. The "e" has an acute

 accent on it in both. In French, adding an "e" changes the

gender of the word, but in this case does not affect the 

pronunciation.


Thus, both are pronounced same: 

Fiancé and Fiancée are often confused by many and there are some who use these words almost interchangeably. 

These are actually French nouns that refer to a person getting married. In French language, nouns are males and females, and thus fiancé and fiancée are male and female nouns used to refer to a person about to be married. There is quite a bit of difference between them as fiancé refers to a male who has been engaged and about to get married while fiancée refers to a woman engaged to a man waiting for her marriage.